Women form a very important part in our society. They are all mothers of all generations, and without them life cannot continue its cycle.However,working maried women can face many problems in thier life,for they are torn between tow major responsibilities: their home and their work.
married women are responsible for a very important establishment in our community: the family. This family might fall apart and suffer if no resposible person looks over it and keeps it together. Women are the most qualififed to do this job,if they act responsibly. But the big problem arises when women have to work to help support their families. Then they have to keep the balance between their life as wives and mothers as one hand, and as workers on the other hand.
When a women goes to work, she has to leave her children for somebody else to look after. Nobody can replace the mother in looking after her family, especially her children. If she has a small young baby who needs breastfeeding, her baby will have to take the milk bottle as a substitute, because the mother is notaround to feed him. All her children will need parental passion and love, but where is that when the parents are at work?
Another problem is house work: cleaning, cooking, etc... when a working women has to do all the job when she comes back from work, she will be under tremendous pressure which will make her tired and irritable, and if she comes late and the food will not be ready on time, that will create more problems.the family might resort to fast food, and this not good for their health.Further more, these two problems mentioned above might cause emotional problems to a working married women, when she leaves her husband,children and home. Her mind will not be at ease simply because she might always be worried about her home and children.
Finally, if the family need the financial support of the women because the husband's salary is not enough, they will have no choice but cope with the consequences, unfortunately.But if working women can create a balance between their duties at work and at home,suffering the consequences can be minimised alot.Who knows? maybe some women really can create that balance if they have some family help, a supporting husband and well behaved children.
married women are responsible for a very important establishment in our community: the family. This family might fall apart and suffer if no resposible person looks over it and keeps it together. Women are the most qualififed to do this job,if they act responsibly. But the big problem arises when women have to work to help support their families. Then they have to keep the balance between their life as wives and mothers as one hand, and as workers on the other hand.
When a women goes to work, she has to leave her children for somebody else to look after. Nobody can replace the mother in looking after her family, especially her children. If she has a small young baby who needs breastfeeding, her baby will have to take the milk bottle as a substitute, because the mother is notaround to feed him. All her children will need parental passion and love, but where is that when the parents are at work?
Another problem is house work: cleaning, cooking, etc... when a working women has to do all the job when she comes back from work, she will be under tremendous pressure which will make her tired and irritable, and if she comes late and the food will not be ready on time, that will create more problems.the family might resort to fast food, and this not good for their health.Further more, these two problems mentioned above might cause emotional problems to a working married women, when she leaves her husband,children and home. Her mind will not be at ease simply because she might always be worried about her home and children.
Finally, if the family need the financial support of the women because the husband's salary is not enough, they will have no choice but cope with the consequences, unfortunately.But if working women can create a balance between their duties at work and at home,suffering the consequences can be minimised alot.Who knows? maybe some women really can create that balance if they have some family help, a supporting husband and well behaved children.
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